How to have meaningful conversations on the internet

by Anatoly Kern

  • Be open-minded and receptive to new ideas. Even if you disagree with an idea, try to understand it and why people believe it.
  • Ask questions. Clarify the other person's point of view and ask for their evidence.
  • Be respectful. Avoid personal attacks and name-calling.
  • Promote empathy and understanding. Try to understand the perspectives of others, even if you disagree with them.
  • Be willing to change your mind. If the evidence shows that you are wrong, be willing to admit it.

In addition to these general tips, there are a few things you can do to make your online conversations more meaningful:

  • Choose your conversations wisely. Not all online conversations are worth having. If you find yourself in a conversation that is disrespectful, unhelpful, or unproductive, it is okay to walk away.
  • Listen attentively. When someone is talking to you, really listen to what they have to say. Don't just wait for your turn to talk.
  • Be honest and genuine. Be yourself and share your own thoughts and feelings. Don't try to be someone you're not.
  • Be respectful of differences. We all have different backgrounds, experiences, and beliefs. It is important to respect the differences of others, even if we disagree with them.